The Birth We
Planned and Hoped for: Our Dream Birth--In A Hospital
Clara Bellar and Gulu Monteiro
We have no words to describe how grateful we are to
her, our "birthing coach" as we affectionately
like to call her. Had she not prepared me physically,
emotionally and intellectually for the marathon that
a natural birth is - had she not been present from beginning
of labor till the very end... there is no way we'd have
had the kind of birth we had: a totally un-medicated,
intervention-free birth in a hospital, which occurred
in water, as it was planned and hoped for.
We hear birth stories from friends all the time, and
it seems they all say "Thank God we were at the
hospital, because things didn't go as planned and we
had to induce/do an epidural/a cesarean." Our story
is pretty much the opposite: "Thank God we had
a doula. Thanks to her, we were able to get our dream
birth and follow our plan, DESPITE the fact we were
in a hospital."
We cannot recommend Marie-Paul enough. Her expertise,
her dedication, her passion for the birthing process
and her empathy make her a dream partner in this wonderful
and unique adventure. She makes sure that a woman gets
the most out of the experience and helps her discover
how unlimited her strength and will power are; that
the baby is welcomed without violence and trauma; and
that the precious bonding between the parents and the
baby happens the way it had to be. She helps the father
be a part of the process and understand his role in
it, and not be a passive, helpless observer, so he knows
how to benefit from the bonding experience right away
even though he doesn't have breast milk! What else can
one ask for?
Best wishes,
Clara Bellar and Gulu Monteiro,
Actress and Actor
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